we have all been there...

     Good evening everybody! Today was a great freaking day! Awesome day! Fantastic day! Not even Dale Junior finishing 23rd today at Sonoma could dampen today. And on that note this blog will probably seem sad or depressing but its really not. Its a subject we have all had to deal with one way or another. And by the way the Yankees won today. Taking the rubber match up from the Mets. We won 6-5.And even though the dish went out as the bottom of the 9th started we managed to hang on. Go figure the signal came back on to sportscenter.
     Okay so we all at some point have been in a relationship. We know that amazing, walking on clouds all day kind of feeling. The joys of a new relationship is unmatched. You can hardly wait to talk to that person and can barely stand the thought of being away from them for any amount of time. And i swear ever happy song on the radio was written about the two of you and somehow the singer knew it was the perfect time to release the song. Everything is perfect and nothing could mess it up. There are few things that can compare to the pure bliss of being in love. You put that persons needs and wants before yours without thinking twice. Being in a room full of people and only seeing your significant other. Its a feeling that is so difficult to desribe and as we may try its still indescribable.
    Sometimes when things dont work out. For whatever reason it can be devastating for one person while on the other side it could be what they wanted. Maybe they wanted the freedom to come and go as they please. Maybe they didnt feel the same connection they once felt. There are so many reasons for relationships to end. While one person gets the freedom they so desire the other person is left to question what went wrong. What could they have done differently? The days drag on and they feel like they will never end. The nights are sleepless and restless. Nothing feels right. Theres no hunger. No thirst. No smile things that once were funny are no longer funny. The feeling is of being broken. Even though we all know these feelings. When we are hurt we feel so alone and dont feel like anybody could possibly understand. And once again the radio is only playing those sad songs which must have been written for us at that particular moment. Its crazy how things in life work out. Sometimes we search and search only to keep getting hurt while others find the one they were ment to be with and have a fulfilling lasting life with. I do believe theres somebody out there for all of us and timing is everything. Sometimes we chase after a person for months only to get hurt in the end anyway. I do know that love is one of the most powerful feelings and emotions ive ever felt. On a bad day it can lift you up and on a good day it can bring you down just as fast. And taking the cahnce on being hurt is worth it. Some people feel they wont ever find it and just give up on it.
    And of course theres love that doesnt have to be physical. Love in the heart can make people do things for others. Just because they are great people at heart. Its that love that seems rare. Nowadays it seems people are only out for themselves and could care less about another person. Small things can make a huge difference for a person. Seems people do things for others and expect some sort of payment. Littles things make a huge difference. And if for no other reason it should make a person feel good about themselves.
   Well i hope i havent rambled to much for anybody. Ihope everybody had a great weekend and hopefully the week is a great on and remember the fourth of July is right around the corner. Lets remember its more than a day of its a time to celebrate our freedom and with the freedom we have has come with great sacrife from the men and women who serve our unselfishly serve our great country. So too these brave people i say thank you. And i know no words can express the gratitude i have towards each of you. You are the real herosof this world.